中国人习惯说客气话，美国人习惯说心里话。即使是很好的朋友遇到有事情的时候该拒绝还是会大方的拒绝。而我们中国人即使自己很为难也不好意思拒绝。我非常赞同美国为人处世的方式！

这段写的最好 -- 慢慢习惯买票排队，和陌生人说Hi，不开奥运也能看见的蓝天白云，不去动物园在自家后院就看见梅花鹿，松鼠，野兔，狐狸和山雀。现在 Obama 也选上总统了，要再把“种族歧视”作为海归主要理由就是公开承认自己口语不行了。兄弟这些年混得有点傻，除了当面评价女士的年龄和身材时，基本都说真话，也相信别人说的是真话，分不清山楂里的苏丹红，和什么什么里的孔雀绿，估计也喝不惯三鹿奶粉什么的。

这帖子今天在其他网站也看到过。

怎么说呢，有空我也写写自己的一天？

Finding a woman who is willing to bare your broken American dream is less optimal than finding one who can help you preserve and gain on your capital. For instance, if you hand out your hard -earned capital to me, you would more likely in rich side by now. So it's too late to cry baby...

It's nearly impossible to find an all-inclusive woman (like me  except that i am too old now). So prioritize the thing you'd value the most, money, her brain or her beauty?  An old woman's wisdom worth a lot of money too.  Since my opinion worth a lot of money and I have cheered you up through this joke, will you invite me for a lunch? (Any investment advice during lunch will be charged with a high consulting fee unless the beneficiary is my mother or spouse.)